Operation Just Cause
...for as long as it takes


Three Fallen Friends
by Larry Joe Goad

SGT Terry Neil Hardig
Date of Birth: December 26th, 1946
Killed in Action: January 21st, 1969

CPL Edward Michael Ruditys
Date of Birth: October 20th, 1948
Killed in Action: February 24th, 1969

SP4 Alan Michael Royston
Date of Birth: May 15th, 1949
Killed in Action: February 24th, 1969

I went to Vietnam in November 1968,  stationed with Company D 4th Battalion, 3rd  Infantry Brigade, Americal Division "UNDER THE SOUTHERN CROSS"

And even though our acquaintance was for a short period of time before these Three Fallen Heroes lost their lives, we had become family.  We shared everything, parts of letters and packages from home, pictures and etc.  As we were placed in this situation we were family, and even today very little time lapses that I don't recall these friends. My mind thinks of the 58,000 plus men and women who gave the ultimate price, their lives.

We had Memorial Services for the Three Fallen Heroes in Vietnam.  I've never made it to Washington D.C., to "The Wall". However in 1995 I made it to the "Moving Wall".  My heart was deeply touched and  tears ran down my face as taps was played.  I went to the station to find out the location of these friends on the wall; as tears were streaming down my face so hard that someone had to write this information out for me until I regained my composure.  I viewed the wall, heart-broken because of those men and women who gave their lives.

When I left the wall I went to the place where the time capsule was and placed within that capsule the picture I had taken of the Memorial Service in Vietnam of my three friends.  This picture was three M16's with bayonets, placed in the ground with helmets on the stock of the weapons and a pair of  boots at the barrel of each weapon.

After twenty-six years, I felt within my heart that I had finally buried my friends on our homeland instead of leaving them  as I remembered them last  on foreign soil.

As we become older I wonder what that reunion day will be like as we too pass from this life unto the next one.  They were so young, leaving so many loved ones behind;  mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, and children of their own.

So my final words are: "REST IN PEACE, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN".

God Bless you all


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